Monday, March 9, 2009

Red hot romance!!!

This is Dale again. Sometimes we husbands , despite all our good intentions, just do a poor job of wooing our wives and making them feel special. I do want to say that I've set the bar pretty high for myself because I've come up with some pretty dang good surprises for Alys through the years. But I realize that those times are too few and far in between. Especially in an economic crunch. So what can a husband do to make his wife feel special? This is a serious question ladies! If I can get all the ladies that read Alys' blog to comment with some ideas, I promise that I'll file them away and do each and every one of them for my super hot wife. What does your husband do for you (or what do you WISH he would do) to make you feel special? I need to let Alys know each and every day that I love her passionately. Unfortunately I am "gender-ally challenged" and I need help! What can I do?

6 comments:

Karolee said...

I don't know much about hot romance...but a surprise over nighter home or away without the kids would be about the best thing I can think of! How spoiled is Alys to have someone who worries about things like this?! :)

Keri said...

Yeah, I think you get points for just doing this much! Make dinner so she doesn't have to. Cleaning always get Shaun major points, unless he complains while doing it! Let her go out solo, no children. Either way, she knows you are madly in love with her.

The Frosts said...

What a good boy! I like everyone else's ideas! You should pass those along to all of our hubbies. I always love a really great massage, or being able to take a long bath with no children interrupting. Especially when you have good smelling stuff for the massage or bath! Go Dale.

Magi said...

ha ha, points for intentions, loss of points for saying "gender-ally". But seriously, you can't loose with an overnighter, even if it's just at your house with the kids away at sleepovers

randa_joy said...

This post alone should count as woo-ing for at least a month.
That said, nothing makes me feel more happy with my husband than when he cleans without being asked. Esp. the dishes, folding laundry, picking up toys and stuff that is always needing done like that. Also just planning something to do together like even a picknic/scenic drive is fun. I think it feels good to just get out of town for a while.
While not steamy, going to the temple is refreshing and good for the marriage.
So there's at least 3 things for your self-inflicted honey do list.

Michelle Bebe said...

make her favorite meal, (esp. good when she's prego) or plan a date! get the sitter all lined up, plan everything, just let her have fun with none of the planning! that is so fun!