Wednesday, August 20, 2008

News

Just thought I would let everyone know that I went to my doc yesterday and found out that I had a miscarriage. I'm very sad and disappointed but I'm at peace with it. I really wanted this baby but it was not meant to be. I'm so grateful to everyone who helped us these past two weeks. I appreciate all your kindness. I'm okay with talking about it so feel free to comment, call or come by. I'm convinced that I have the best friends, ward, and neighborhood ever. I'll be blogging again soon, I just need a minute...

20 comments:

Karolee said...

Oh Alys...so sorry to hear. You are a trooper and I'm really proud of how you have handled all that you have had to go through. You know you can call me anytime...

Love you.

The Henderson Family said...

I'm so sorry Alys! What terrible news! I hope things get better for you and your positive attitude will definitely make it easier for you to cope and heal. I need to come see you and Heather soon. I feel so bad, I missed Heather's shower (my dad was in that bad car accident) and then I had to miss Heather's reception (my husband donated blood and passed out, so I had to go pick him up and I was puking all day long. I didn't think I could make the trek out to Mesa feeling that terrible). I need to make amends for my poor friendship capabilities lately. Hang in there...make sure you give your three kiddos an extra squeeze. I will keep you in my prayers.

Chad~Nicole said...

Hugs.

Cresta said...

Alys - I'm so sorry. We love you!

Jamie said...

So sorry to hear this. Hopefully the next time will be easier. Pregnancies are such a miracle and blessing. Love you!

Sean & Julia Johnson.... said...

I'm so sorry to hear that!

The Whatcott Fam said...

I'm so sorry Alys...I will keep you in my prayers!!

Tim and Shay said...

I'm sorry to hear. That is tough. Tim's sister Just had a miscarriage two days ago on the 18th. I'm scared to try again for fear of a 4th miscarriage. It is happening so much lately to so many people. Hopefully your next one will be healthy and sucessful.

LisaLaughs said...

Alys, just popped in to say hello and just read your news. I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sending you a big hug and prayers for your continued healing. God bless you!!
Lisa

Camron & Lauren Howell said...

Alys, I'm so sorry. You are in our prayers. Take care and let me know if I can help you in any way.

Olsen Family said...

I'm sorry, Alys. I know how excited you were to be pregnant. You fought hard and were diligent, but everything happens for a reason. Have you talked to your kids about it? I'm so grateful for the peace the gospel brings. We know we will live again after this life. It seems our children know it and accept it so easily. It brings such a comfort. -hugs-

Stacia said...

I'm so sorry. Hang in there. Let me know if you need anything. Love ya!

Brenay Family said...

Alys, I'm so sorry to hear your news. It is good that you can be positive about it though! Hope you are doing ok!

T Goates said...

I admire your strength. Please call me if you need anything. xoxo

Kari said...

Alys, I"m so sorry. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and Dale. You are such a rock! Love ya!

The Frosts said...

Love ya, Alys. I'm so sorry. Let us know if you need anything. We're just down the road.

The Willis Family said...

I'm sorry to hear that. I've only come to realize over the last few years what a miracle it is to have a healthy pregnancy and on top of that a healthy baby. Bummer I didn't get to see you while I was in town. Just know I'm thinking of ya!

Jamie and Heather Darger said...

I know we talked today but I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you. Take care of yourself and keep your chin up. love

Heather

Lil Beck said...

I LOVE THE CRAP OUTTA YOU, SIS!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm glad you are so open about it, because I just wanna give ya a hug and tell you I'm here for you through whatever. And I want you to know that come rain or shine, I'm your biggest fan! (Dale doesn't have the whole corner on that market)

CAWL ME!

Michelle said...

Oh Alys, I am so sorry to hear this! I hope you are feeling alright, what a sad day!

I am glad to hear that you seem so open and okay with it so far.

If you need anything please don't hesitate to call me. I would love to help out any way I can! Even if it's just someone to vent to!

Hang in there!